Transpartisan Dialogue

Debate

• Assuming that there is a right answer, and you have it
• Combative: participants attempt to prove the other side wrong
• About winning
• Defending our own assumptions as truth
• Listening to find flaws and make counter arguments
• Seeing two sides of an issue
• Searching for flaws and weaknesses in others’ positions
• Defending one’s own views against those of others 
• By creating a winner and loser, discourages further discussion
• Seeking a conclusion or vote that ratifies your position

Dialogue

• Assuming that many people have pieces of the answer and that together they craft a new solution 
• Collaborative: participants work together toward common understanding
• About exploring common ground
• Listening to understand, find meaning and agreement
• Revealing our assumptions for reevaluation 
• Seeing all sides of an issue
• Admitting that others’ thinking can improve on one’s own
• Searching for strengths and value in others’ positions
• Keeps the topic open even after the discussion formally ends
• Discovering new options, not seeking closure